Bakit Ang Babae.....

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Had a tough day..

Got massacred in our geology report... Sana man lang ipasa kami ni sir... Justice was given on our report.. We didn't prepare well enough, and well, we got executed....

I had to blog right now because I would be busy the last couple of days... And I may not be able to check back often....

So, bakit nga ba ang babae mahirap maintindihan????
A close friend of mine, a girl, had always said to me that a woman's instinct consists largely of defense and fear.... Ewan ko kung san nya napulot yun pero medyo totoo naman yung sinasabi nya e,,,

Actually, the fear and the defensive mentality of a woman can probably be rolled into one, since the defenses (most notably the emotional barriers set up) are a by-product or a manifestation of the fear residing in everyone, not just the girls. Come on, who wants to get hurt bad? Who in his or her sane mind would like to be in excruciating pain?

Sabi nila maraming kinatatakutan ang mga babae. And sometimes this fear of theirs impairs their judgement and all. I've met a lot of girls who tend to exert a strong presence to people around them, but sometimes even they too break down, make mistakes and be soft due to a certain set of circumstances. After all, we do have a certain breaking point. Humans aren't exactly elastic you know.. But they can be tolerant and resilient.

It happens everytime, when you reach a point that you thought you knew a girl, then suddenly you didn't know her anymore. She becomes just a name. And you become the wind passing her by, ever anonymous, but not unnoticed. Do girls really go haywire after they emotionally break? Its really strange that they could easily erase any memory they have of you. Or maybe they are just too afraid to remember, since things can slippery slope very easily.

Water, rushing by, can easily carve unto the earth. Such is also the case with a stream of emotions. They are what comprise a girl's "moments" in her life. May it be spending time with her family who she missed dearly, going to the church after a long sabbatical, even convincing herself that she had found true love. These events define the person, but as easy as it is, they also have the capacity to destroy, with ease, everything they have erected.

In my life, I've had 2 bestfriends, both of them girls. One was back in high school, the other one was in college. They did have a lot of similarities. They loved literature a lot, and they were good at it. They loved gossip. They kept their friends close to their hearts. They were religious (ehem, si chowee po ay religious.. Tignan nyo na lang yung first communion pic nya. :D ) and one more thing, they were emotionally and mentally strong, the type of people you'd come running to when you've had enough of life.

Eeriely, they both have the same emotional set-up. The big, fat, thick as concrete emotional walls surround them. They were both very protective of their emotions and it showed. They loved with all their heart, and were smart enough not to give it all unto one person.

They were also swift and unforgiving when it comes to heartbreak... Both are also incapable of moving on easily. Well, siguro lahat naman tayo mahihirapan, kasi lahat naman ng sugat nag-iiwan ng pilat di ba?

For me, getting to know these two women in my life (well, 18 na po sila) was like an engineering development project. A lot of planning and time was consumed. Perfect execution was required. And well, after getting a peep of what was behind their walls, it made me realize that I did pick the right people...

Ever heard of tensile strength? Its a term in structural engineering that defines specific points of stress in a structure which, when applied with correct pressure literally displaces the center of gravity eventually leading to structural collapse. Since we are dealing with walls, well its a great analogy for the "getting-to-know" process of two people.

As you stick to a person, over time, you get to know his/her tendencies, her insecurities, anything that you might want to know. Then it gets to the point that, you wanted to know more, sometimes you eventually become the best friend. Then she becomes more open. But she won't let her guard down. It's up to the other person, whether or not he decides to break through her walls and see the "real" her, or whatever it is she keeps to herself. Girls build up these big, sturdy walls because inside of these edifices lie the true person.

Its when the girl bares it all that she becomes most vulnerable. But its weird, coz as mentioned earlier, sometimes girls have the tendency to be misunderstood by the people around them. They panic and push the erase button to rid of themselves of the person they called their best friend and resume their lives as if nothing happened.

A piece of advice to all of us, may you be an XX (girl) or an XY (boy).
Moving on is about accepting what is served in front of us.
It is not about leaving everything behind as if nothing ever really happened.

Some piece of advice. Pero sa totoo lang di ko rin sinusunod yan eh. Hahaha!!!

Di ko talaga alam kung bakit ang mga babae minsan mahirap intindihin, kahit na gusto mo syang intindihin wala ring mangyayari. Weirdo talaga. Pero siguro ganun talaga. Kailangan din kasi nating maisip na kung lahat na lang ng bagay naiintindihan natin, di na natin alam kung saan ilalagay ang tama at ang mali, kasi magkakaroon na tayo ng mga dahilan para masabing nararapat yung gagawin natin.

So, ang babae, mahirap maintindihan... Pero kung iisiping mabuti, mga tsong, bakit ba natin sila mahal? E kasi gusto natin silang intindihin kahit hindi na natin alam yung ginagawa nila.

Wow.

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